A random conversation with kee®

kee® says:
Boy: Boys are always more intelligent than girls
Girl: Any proof?
Boy: We always say intelliGENT, have u ever heard telling intelliLADY. .??

CLMX says:
who say!

kee® says:
wrong meh? got intellilady?
no such thing WAT!

CLMX says:
boys are the source of all problems for ladies

kee® says:
!!!!!! r u sure anot..

CLMX says:
*MENstruation, MENopause

kee® says:
ladies are the one always make problem
then always wan to win, wrong also become correct
pek chek lor
then final move, CRY
if do wrong thing then duno suddenly all the theory come frm where
talk until man lose then man fight back abit
cry liao lor
champion

CLMX says:
hahaa, i think tts true.
LOL! i so wanna blog abt this

Love

I'm in bliss. :)

A random conversation with KíÑG™

CLMX says:
i find it v amazing lo
that a baby can live and grow inside ur body
and i think its a wonderful experience for the dad to be the first one to see the birth of his child.

KíÑG™ Җ バーソロミュー・くま (｡◕‿◕｡)"From Great to Legendary." says:
well....i see it as a natural process of life. we all have the natural nutrients to let a life grow in us.
but only ladies have the space for it to happen

CLMX says:
LOL!

KíÑG™ Җ バーソロミュー・くま (｡◕‿◕｡)"From Great to Legendary." says:
pardon my crudeness
but i think tts true

KíÑG™ Җ バーソロミュー・くま (｡◕‿◕｡)"From Great to Legendary." says:
and cannot expect kids to be coming out from guys' channel
it wld be erm...excruciating

CLMX says:
WTF

CLMX says:
im so gonna blog abt this

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Anyway, the main purpose of this entry is that, I find it very amusing when I tried imagining "babies coming out from guy's channel". And also the way he plainly states that "it would be erm.. excruciating". Simple, but yet I could feel the message. LOL!

Mizuno Shoe

Yay!! I finally bought my 2nd pair of Mizuno indoor court shoes for my new volleyball interest group! Woot!! I'm sooooo looking forward to coming Monday where I'll start my 1st session with the group!

*SCREAMS WITH EXCITEMENT*

-prays hard that it wont rain on monday-

Friends

Had been contemplating for quite some time on whether to blog this entry or not. But oh wells, here it goes.

There are many different level of friends. Bff, close friend, good friend, normal friend, buddy, hi-bye friend, etc. But this entry, is dedicated to my different best friends. As the saying goes, Friends come and go. You gain some, you lose some but some are destined to stay. I totally agree on that and that's why I'm putting it down in words.

Have you ever felt that you are losing your best friend to someone else? And that, there's always other people who wants to be even best-er friends with your best friend than you? Or wants to share your best friend with you?

I don't know why, but it happens to me every single time at the different stages of my life. All throughout my life, the number of guy friends I have, greatly shadowed the number of girl friends I have. I do not have the kind of girly girl group which most girls have. A bunch of girls to share secrets, joke around with, hang out around with, and have stayovers. I admit I crave for such friendships, but I doubt I will be able to fit in.

Anyway, in Primary school, some female classmate claims that Amy (my best friend) is also her best friend. I used to have this thought that whoever can run the fastest or whoever can finish the 1.2km run faster than the other, can claim the friendship of the best friend. (Childish right? That's when I was in primary school). But of course, I never did voice out. Then in P5 and P6, I dont know why, but I gradually got closer to another classmate, Pegan. But I think that, I seemed to be some tag along to her rather than her best friend. Kinda pathetic, now that I think back.

In Secondary school, in S1 & S2, everyone just hung out as a big group. Can't really remember whether at that time, do I have any best friend or not. Then in S3 & S4, my best friend will definitely be Wee Yong. We always walk out of school together, go to Kallang Mac to have our daily dose of 2 large fries, 2 packets of mayonnaise, 14 packets of garlic chilli and 1 large coke, go to her house to hang out, etc. Then after Os, she drifted away from me when she got together with her boyfriend. She was working at Country Manna at Suntec, and whenever she have off days, she will be out with her bf. So, there goes the friendship. Of course we are still friends, but it's a completely different friendship. Uptil today, I still do regret that I just let the friendship whiled away instead of grabbing hold of it.

In poly, obviously I got on very good terms with her, which everyone seems to know. But I think because of some circumstances, we drifted apart and again, everyone seems to be able to tell. Sometimes I feel intimidated by her because she is so much more knowledgable than me, more fashionable than me. The girls which she eventually got close to her, is much more in the same world as her, compared to me. I chose not to join their group because I do not really like one of the girls. And also, I was hanging out as friends with her ex, which might have made the situation worse. Slowly, I got even closer to Nica, which I had found out that she is in the same circle and frequency as me. And somehow, she seems to understand me. And eventually after all these years, I knew that Nica is the friend who is destined to stay with me. Of course, I still do feel insecure that I might lose her whenever she meets new friends during her partying nights. But well, I can't really explain why, but I know she will always be around, no matter what.

Then there's this friend which I think he is destined to stay for long too, even though he is happily attached now. I had failed him before, choosing my ex over his friendship. Which till now, I deeply regret. A deeper regret than Wee Yong's case. He of course had forgiven me. But I have never forgave myself for that. I don't think I ever will. It will serve as a reminder to me forever. He had sticked by me through my ups and downs and always stick out his helping hand to me when I need it.

Seriously, I think I have a problem in maintaining friendship. I do not know whether I'm a good friend or not. Cos I admit I will go 'missing' for awhile without contacting any friends and only sticking together with Dan. But seems like, Nica always 'forgive' me for that. Maybe, maybe all these that had happened, is all my fault. My fault for not putting in more effort in maintaining friendships... Maybe I'm selfish.

And now, I have only a few close/good friends, which I think is more than I deserved. And I greatly appreciate them for their presence in my life. To, Admiral Alsmoker.

Love @ 2 years

Happy 2nd year anniversary to us!! :D

Celebrated in advance on Saturday 22/08/2009 because I have no more leave available to take.

We went for the skydining dinner on the cable car from mount faber to sentosa. Managed to make it in time to see the sunset. The food was not too bad, but due to it being fine dining, the food portion was not filling. But the whole trip and dinner was very enjoyable. :) Also, dan gave me a surprise by buying a slice of chocolate cake. It was damn sinful cos its so chocolatey and it tastes very very nice. Loves.

Before we started the journey, the photographer from the restaurant took photos of us sitting in the cable car and informed us that we can 'collect' our photos from the counter when the trip ended. We were then discussing how come they used the term 'collect' rather than 'buy or purchase'. So it turns out that, 1 A5 photo + 2 wallet sized photo + 1 snow globe with our photo inside costs $50! It came as quite a surprise cos when we stepped down from the cable car, they show us all this nice nice photos. Then the salesperson just nonchalantly mention: "You can get all these at only $50." WTH. But anyway, we bought them. LOL. Cos it's really pretty and I don't think we will go for the skydining trip again soon.

Then, we went for our movie "G.I. Joe : The Rise of the Cobra" at Vivocity GV Goldclass and after which, home sweet home. :)

My another surprise gift from Dan is a necklace from SK Jewellery, which I hearts it alot. :D

A post for Anawang

Felt strange to be blogging again. Heh.

Anyway, was talking to CC earlier on, regarding our ex-maid, Anawang or Ahwang (the 1st and last maid we had). A few years ago, when my parents can't afford to keep her anymore, my dad sent her off to work for his friend instead of sending her back to Thailand. But apparently, ahwang wasnt happy about it. And since then, I felt she held a grudge on my dad. I'm not sure whether it's because she have to leave our house or she doesn't like working for her new master.

To most singaporeans, a maid is a maid and to be treated like a maid, as we can see from the negative news that was widely reported all over the media. But for me, ahwang is more than a maid. She is my family member. She's been with us since I was 4. She saw us grow up from toddlers and baby to teenagers. At that time, both my parents are working, and Benson was just born, so my parents had to employ a maid to look after the three of us, do the housework and cook dinner for my grandparents and us. So ahwang was like a nanny to benson rather than maid.

It's her first time being a maid and first time coming out to Singapore to work. She took the train all the way from Thailand to Singapore on her own and waited for my dad to fetch her at the Woodlands Custom. She's 27 at that time, a year younger than my mom. I think she is very brave, given that she is a country bumpkin. My parents employed her through a friend, rather than through the usual maid agency. Anyway, she stayed in my family all these years without getting married and the chance to have children. All because she wanted to provide a better life for her family in Thailand, which she really did as her family was able to buy land to do farming, to repair their houses, and helped support her nieces and nephews for schooling.

My parents gave ahwang lots of freedom, being that they left for work at 9+ in the morning and come home at 11pm at night. But of course they do have the basic expectations of a maid, ie. cleaning the house, washing and ironing the clothes and cooking food for us. Well, she did do her job well. Cos I always came home to good food, ironed clothes etc.

But I remembered clearly a comment that my sec school mate said when she came over to my house on a afternoon after school. "How come your maid so free one? Can read magazines somemore." I forgotten what I had replied her. But at that time, I didnt know that maid arent supposed to be 'that free'. Cos they are supposed to be cleaning the house all the time. Oh wells, since my parents also didnt emphasised too much on the cleanliness of the house, like the cupboards must be completely dust free, the window panes must be complete stains-free, that sort of cleanliness. I remember my maid's routine, even uptil today. I don't remember her not doing any of her job well. And I do not find anything wrong with maid reading magazines or watching tv, as long as they do their job.

Then, came one day when Ahwang's attitude starts to change. She became grouchier and having attitude problems. All along, she have problems with my ahma as my ahma always pinpoint at her. My ahgong have to amputate his lower left leg in order to prevent his leg to continue rotting because of diabetes. So, my grandparents' children employed a indonesian maid to help take care of my ahgong.

Ahwang dislikes the maid. I somehow do, too. I can't even remembers her name now. She's too flirty and whiny. And, there's one time ahwang showed me that the maid kept her used sanitary pad in the room (which the maid is sharing with her) for awhile before throwing. That's so dirty!!! Grossed out man. But what to do, that's my grandpa's maid. And, the maid doesnt helps out in Ahwang's work cos she is just employed to look after the grandpa. Technically speaking, there's nothing wrong with the maid not doing any housework. But I guess ahwang doesnt sees it that way. And alot of other things la.

Then came the day when my dad have to send ahwang away. Of course she cried. I did too. When she was at her new house, she will call me when she's free. But as time goes by, I don't hear from her anymore. Shortly, I got a call from CC (as her ex-maid is ahwang's good friend) and know that ahwang's employer have given up on her and dropped her at Eunos MRT. Apparently, my dad later told me that his friend say Ahwang's attitude is very bad and she doesnt like to bathe their dog and someother things which I cant really remember. For all I know, ahwang is scared of dogs due to a nasty bite which it gave her when she was young. The scar is still there.

So at that time, CC's family need a maid as her maid is old and can't work for them anymore, so CC's family employed Ahwang. I was so grateful that at least Ahwang have some place to stay and work again. It's been a long time since I last contacted CC and Ahwang. So earlier on, I saw that CC was online, so I chat her up.

I was very surpised to hear bad comments from CC on Ahwang. That she was very lazy, puts the blame on others when she did wrong, not helping to look after her grandma when the other maid(employed to look after the grandma) was bathing, talking back to them. Regarding the grandma thing, its like a v similar situation back at my house, but the roles are reversed. From what CC said, I think ahwang's attitude had turned really bad.

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cc - The Little Teochew says:
another thing i find its boiling, my grandma is not as strong as last time. when she came over and stay with us, she will be attached with anoher maid given by my uncle. so you see, if that maid went to bath, shouldnt you be taking over? i was in my room with my sis, and my sis saw my grandma walking about alone. imagine the horror we felt, because grandma dont have the strength to really walk we dashed out to help her and we found ah wang fucking watching korean drama and not helping her. i yelled at her and she rebelled by saying the maid bathing lah, my sista helping her so she dont see the need to help
WHAT THE FUCK IS SHE TALKING ABOUT?
of course my sis went to tell my mom, mom went to confront her and thats when she said people in the house bad mouthed her
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It's bad, isnt it? Seriously, if she wasn't ahwang, I would have definitely reacted the same way as CC. But then, somehow I felt that, it's my family's fault that she has turned this way. We gave her too much freedom and I think she might have took for granted that she will always have such incentives no matter which family she works for. And thus, that leads to her bad attitude whenever she's not allowed to do her own things. During the final years with us, I do admit that Ahwang has somehow become very attitude. But we just let her be and didnt correct her, besides she's somehow my mini-mother. And, I always feel that we shouldnt treat maids like servants and we should treat them like equal-being. And that what's CC believed too. So when I heard what Ahwang has been doing, I felt so bad, that CC's family have to go through such bad stuffs. They do not deserve it.

And when I heard CC referring her as bitch, I just felt so sad. I know that ahwang is definitely at fault. But I cant help but feel sad. :(

Maybe maid should really be treated like maid. Enforce strict schedules and work routine for them. And do not give them so much freedom. But, how to treat another female as a lower rank human being? It's already hard on them to grow up with poverty and be away from their family and children. And here we have to treat them like a servant? I always believed that if you treat someone good, you will be treated equally in time to come. Am I considered naive? Given that, ahwang had turned out this way.

Anway, I told CC that I will try to meet up with Ahwang one of these days and see what she will tell me. Till then.